Tuesday, December 20, 2011

What's in a Name? Dutch Magazine Calls Girls Like Rihanna N*GGAB*TCH

Naming has always been, among many other things, about power.

I remember watching Roots, reluctantly under my parents' rule. I remember Kunta, notoriously holding onto all he had left, his name, refusing to accept "Toby" as his new label, as his fate.

Malcolm and Martin both changed their own names in response to cultural influences to political affect. Add to the list: Nina Simone, Alicia Keys, Ocho Cinco, bell hooks, Mark Twain, Harriet Jacobs...

The act of naming illustrates a power dynamic and a political act: one between the namer and the named and the other, in the act itself. As long as I've been alive I've known this concept as it works personally and as it relates to the collective. From Negro to Black to African American to colored to black to afro-american and everything else in between, we've seen how naming is laced in political detritus and personal vernaculars. We've seen how politically correctness infiltrates even the most sincere conversations turning it into a tip-toe shuffle. And, we've seen how inappropriate and ill-informed naming reveals ignorance and insensitivity.

But how do these power dynamics play out? What happens when we name ourselves? Do we exert an authority, an authorship in our identity formation? What type of power does one exert by naming another? Parents certainly hold a unique ownership over their children, which partially manifests itself in this responsibity of naming the child. Similarly, when we reject our given name, naming ourselves, we engage in an assertion of power and subsequently voice. But, what happens when those doing the naming do not know the namee personally? What happens when one group prescribes a hurtful name, which they view endearing, to a another group? Complicated further, what happens when the group giving the name does so from a traditional place of power or a place of privilege, giving the named no say?

An article I read recently on urbanbushbabes.com raised these and many other questions for me. you know how I get.

the article didn't anger me, as it seemed to want, but it definitely raised some interesting ideas.
When do we sing our little song about sticks and stones and when do the words people call us need to be put in check?
read:


WOW! Popular Dutch Magazine Calls Black Girls Like Rihanna A “N*IGGAB*TCH”



What do you think?



Friday, December 16, 2011

DIY Holiday Fun

So... this is the first Christmas that I am not scrambling for money. Ironically, this is the first Christmas that I have the clarity of mind to make my own gifts. So, the women in my life, myself included, are getting a few quality handmade gifts.

Here are some DIY gift ideas - or gifts for yourself...yay!

1. Sugar Scrub
Gift Ideas for the Holiday Season: DIY Homade Sugar Scrub





 2. Lemon Honey Facewash
DIY Honey Lemon Mask For Your Face







 3. Shealoe Butter
DIY Shealoe Butter for Hair and Skin









Monday, December 12, 2011

New Jams




ciao.

Things I'm Diggin

1. StyleLikeU http://stylelikeu.com/
a fabulous website for people who: glean inspiration from aesthetics and love looking in really really stylish people's closets. Bold looks, fearless fashions. 

2.Urban Bush Babes http://urbanbushbabes.com/
 food recipes, natural hair recipes, fashion and hair gallery inspiration, two dope chicks who find the cool stuff for you. If you wish you could afford places like Anthropology because you love everything in it, this is the site for you. 

an awesome online magazine! check it out below



Enjoy

My Kinda People


Yara Flinn Closet Interview With StyleLikeU from StyleLikeU on Vimeo.





             

Consume Consciously ... addition to the goals list


Wamuhu Waweru Closet Interview With StyleLikeU from StyleLikeU on Vimeo.